So let go all of these mixed emotions

Aug 28

sexartandpolitics:

“[W]hile sex positivity is often discussed in the context of acknowledgement and toleration for “non-mainstream” activities such as kink, BDSM, polyamory, LGTB orientations, or sex work, it necessarily implies toleration and acceptance of asexuality, disinterest, and even squicks: real sex positive people are as respectful of “no thank you” as they are of “yes please.””

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Clarisse Thorn on Why Active Monogamy is Also Sex Positive and Thus Needs No Apologies | Figleaf’s Real Adult Sex (via curvaceousdee)

It’s true.

This is so great to read. I’m so tired of being told I’m not a sex-positive person or sex activist because I’m a virgin. I’m not saying, by that fact, that everyone should be, or that that’s the only lifestyle choice people should be allowed. I’m choosing to say no until I want to say yes. I’m not stifling my sexuality because I have to or it’s wrong. I’m a sex-positive person because I believe sex is a natural thing and a choice for people to make based on their own needs, desires, and self-education.

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